Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Trouble trusting boyfriend

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 8 months now. I'm still having trouble trusting him. He's gave me a million reasons for me to trust him. Even his friends told me he is the most faithful person they know. In my past relationships I've been cheated on many of times. When he goes out, I always ask him questions like "were there girls there? did they touch you? did u flirt with them?" It's tearing us apart. We both want to be together for the rest of our lives. We recently had a conversation about this whole trust issue and we almost broke up over it. He told me that if we have to have this conversation again its over. Please help, our relationship is a stake because of me. I want to be able to trust him, I just have a mental block in my head. I suppose I'm doing this to protect myself from getting hurt again. That's probably why I ask all those questions.

Thank you,
Kalena Lawson

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Boyfriend vs Dad n Mum

Hi all, im a 16 year old girl and have been with my boyfiend 4years! yeah along time i know but we love the hell outta each other, we have our ups and downs but who doesnt? lol. the situation is my mum and dad really dislike him because of what he has done to me in the past but i have forgiven him for that and we have both moved on. My choices are to move out and have nothing to do with my parents or forget my boyfriend and the four years and do what my mum and dad want me to do...finish with my boyfiend and stay with them. Im in such a dilemma coz its so hard to choose coz its my family and boyfriend...? anyone any advice...please !!! xox

- Liv X

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