Out of Love

Recently my girlfriend started working in a bar and I have barely seen her since. I prophesied at the time that she would fall out of love with me and fall in love with one of her barmen purely because of the amount of time she spent there. Exactly this has happened and she told me she has fallen out of love and 3 days later she is in bed with her barman saying she loves him. What should I do? Is this it? I love her.

- Sam

Boyfriend Changed

I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. Things were great when we started going out for the first 3 months at least. We broke up for about 1 month but we were always together during it. When we started going back out things were great he treated me better than ever, but then things started to change. He never wants to be around me and we always fight. when he started to live with me, things just got worse. He threatens to break up with me all the time, or leave me. He calls me names and says Im a crazy bitch because I wanna talk to him instead of fighting. He never keeps his promises. Im starting to become really depressed. I dont know what to do.

- gina