Remarry

Well I have been dating a 41 year old who has 2 kids for 2 years, as I am 30 I would like someday to remarry and possibly have another child but he is totally against it. I do love him very much but I told him I needed to go my own way because I have to stick to want I want. Now I met another man 31 with a daughter the same age as my daughter although I haven't developed any feelings for him yet, I think my heart is with the other man. Now the 41 year old says he can't not have me in his life and if marrying me is what it takes well he will have to give in to me. I am so confused now as to which way to turn because I think the 31 year old is my age and our daughters have the same interests, where as the other man's kids are 10 and 6. Please help....

Agnes

In Love

My partner says he loves me, and I asked him if he was in love with me, and he said no. He has been married twice before, and he said he has never been in love with anyone. He has been hurt in the past, and I dont know if this is a barrier he is putting up. I have no doubt he loves me, and he always tells me why didnt we meet years ago. But I am very hurt that he says he is not in love with me.

- Karen

Privacy

Last year, I bought a house about 1/2 mile from my sister. Over the past year I've lived there, she has popped in unannounced almost every day with the expectation that I would drop whatever it is I'm doing and entertain her and feed her. As a result, I am finally in my own home at 37 and I feel as if I have absolutely no privacy or security. She has the key, so it's not like I can hide until she gives up ringing the door bell. The problem is that whenever she is directly criticized or even gently confronted about her behavior, she fights very dirty and quite frankly, it is a toss up between suffering with no privacy and facing the dragon.

- Jennifer