Love Gift 2
Narcissist 2
Matchmaking
Narcissist
Drug and Relationship

Thursday, April 26, 2007

Love Gift 2

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Narcissist 2

Admiration

Narcissists are not only successful in their way; they also need to constantly convince others that they are the best, the smartest, the most talented, and they are never tired of doing so. If it means they must devalue others, then they devalue. It's something they cannot live without. It's also something others can't really stand within. Not to say you are better than or as good as them is not enough, you must tell them they are the best; to tell them they are the best is not enough, they must reenforce they are the much best by teasing you you are not. The way how a narcissist constantly firm his position of being the best can reach a certain extend to cover the tiniest matter. One of my ex-boyfriends used to compare his mother with mine, his sister with my brother, until the brand of his speaker with mine, and even if it's apparent that the two brands are equally famous or actually mine is more famous (I don't really care about this point) It's their helpless self-esteem. My bottom line is not to be hurt; above this line, if you have to cheat to gain success, if you have to say how good you are to firm your position, it's OK, I can smile and think about something else; however, below this line, it's not necessary for me to endure. I will leave you. That's what a narcissist is truly afraid. To be abandonned is the most severe denial of his self-esteem in terms of the excessive admiration he is seeking for. He will do whatever to make up. If it means to be violent, then be violent; if it means to threaten, then threaten. What's your reaction? Be afraid and go back to him? Then you repeat your mistake. When he gets you back, everything will be the same and he must continue his reenforcement at all aspects. Remember, narcissists they don't love they don't need love, they need admiration. They don't care about what you think, as long as you are there, they feel comfortable you still follow them. I feel lucky I finally left that ex-boyfriend. He kept writing to me for a whole year after that and I never read those letters. To hurt his self-esteem is not my interest; to live a life without him is what I want. He may be successful. It has nothing to do with me. I just feel sorry for his present spouse. I can't help her while knowing what kind of life she is living. So what kind of wife a narcissist is looking for? - to be continued

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Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Matchmaking

You may notice some reviews I have written were sponsored reviews. SponsoredReviews is the first paid-blogging system to allow advertisers and bloggers to be both passive and active at their own preference. This is a novel idea. I call it as “two-way communication”. Advertisers can post opportunities to attract bids from bloggers and bloggers can search through opportunities and bid on them directly, or bloggers can post their profiles to attract offers from advertisers and advertisers can search through bloggers profiles and purchase reviews directly.
This paid-blogging system was newly launched this year compared with its competitors, however, I watched and walked along with its swift and steady growth based on its enterpriser’s wise and contemporary business concept and earnest attitude, and I grow with them together.
This “two-way communication” is very encouraging system for bloggers. This ensures that both bloggers and advertisers won’t miss precious opportunities. The blogsphere is a vast and colorful community. Each blog is unique in some way. It’s very hard to classify all and difficult to guarantee that no chance is missed. You will double the exposure with this “two-way communication” system.
This reminds me of matchmaking system. When you post your profile, you may get a lot or a little reply solely based on your brief self-introduction. When you get a lot reply, it happens that most of them may be unwanted. However, if you do a search based on your query, you may find some other unnoticed profiles that catch your attention.
I clearly remember my second review opportunity was initially offered by the advertiser. I didn’t expect this offer since I was worried that my blog might not meet their page rank criteria. However, my audience is their target market and they probably favor my writing style. Since then, I try to seize more opportunities for both sakes.
As I mentioned early, SponsoredReviews’ enterpriser has wise and contemporary business concept and earnest attitude. They care about advertisers and bloggers. They spend time summarizing a lot of resourceful tips to help the growth of advertisers and bloggers. In regard to their tip about "post length", I do believe the longer the better, because visitors find you through search engines and search engines prefer long and unique text. When readers reached your blog, it's at their preference how to read the article. There are always some scan, skip extensive and also intensive reading skills involved. As long as you believe your article is well organized, don't worry about the length. The longer the more likely the readers will bookmark or share your article or comment on it and of course they will come back again for updates.
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Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Narcissist

Successful

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is a theory that sums up the life we pursue and the one that will eventually lead to our ultimate happiness. They are:
1. Physiological;
2. Safety;
3. Love/Belonging;
4. Esteem;
5. Self-actualization
The world is colorful and people are different. A person like me sees others' happiness as my own happiness. I like to help people live a happy life. I can't cover all topics in short and rather, I prefer to dig them one by one in great detail. In this way, you walk every step perfectly and then form your entire happy journey gradually.
This blog's purpose is to help perfect your relationship starting from your love/belonging need. Still, I won't begin with relationship as a whole; on the contrary, I would like to start from a very specific type of person to discuss about. They are called "narcissist". It's not important what they are called. It's just a name, a label to differentiate them from other types.
I would not right away define what is "narcissist", but still begin with very readable facts you may exactly encounter and your participation of the discussion will help fulfil our "theory" and help find the best strategy to solve real life relationship problem.
Today I will only make one example and the good one. Not every good one like this is narcissist but most narcissists are good in this same way. It helps you notice you may encounter one before you are attracted to and fall in love.
They are successful. Even if they are too young to be really successful in some way, still, they are more successful than others in same age. Be aware, some real life-long misery starts from blind happiness.
There are many kinds of success. Famous writers, artists, scientists, they are all successful people. The novel, the painting and the invention brought by them are the final production and this may bring them fame. They are happy doing what they like regardless of success and they may feel happier if their creation is recognized.
Narcissists are not into these. They are more into money, however, money is not really their final goal. Their aim is people, world, the fame of being admired by people and then the power to "run" the world. They don't contribute a novel, a painting, an invention; for them, these are tiny. In their heart, they may be jealous of those writers, artists, scientists, nevertheless, surfacely, narcissists try to firm their success by constantly emphasizing that the true success is money, power. They are good at speech convincing people; that's what their charm lies and a charm blinds your eyes. For them, if convincing means to lie, then lie. Others' admiration is what makes them comfortable but not the honesty for some other kinds of people. Some people can't lie simply because to lie makes them feel uncomfortable in their heart. Nonetheless, for narcissists, the final goal is the most important. What do they truly bring you? Any creation, invention that benefit society? People who admire narcissists leaders will do these detail jobs for them. Do we need narcissists leaders? Yes, we do, in some occassions (not all), especially in chaos, however, do we need a narcissistic spouse? Only if you are a narcissist too or if you like to be tortured. - to be continued

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Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Drug and Relationship

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